Comments on: What are good reasons why a person should save sex for marriage/stop having sex until marriage?

By: Mahshid

Mahshid — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 07:28:01 +0000

Listen here from a muslim girl,hope your not one who judges just by being Muslim!
there are so many rules that we don’t listen to,but at least we should know why that is ordered.There are so many reasons here for like:
When people do sex with any one who is that night near them you can see how much sexual diseases are increasing.
If you do sex after marriage then if you get a child the baby would have a real father and mother.
If you be the first person for her or him then she or he would love you without comparing you with others.
and also when some one chooses a person not because of physical attractions such a love would be a real love and will remain for ever.
people who do sex as an animal need miss the depth of sex and the reason that GOD had for to gave it to us.
There is too much difference between having a romantic sex and just having sex!
and one other reason is when you give your body with all of your feelings and then he or she abandons you your heart really breaks and some times people can’t trust any one for ever but if you keep it untill you’ll be sure that he or she will stay with you forever then you can do it by a free mind and even better and with lots of love.
All of those are not like you think what would happen if some one’s heart is broken?Life is short and we have to do whatever makes us happy!!!There are even some social reasons over such a rules.When the society is ill then it effects in so many other values.Then our childeren won’t be healthy people emotionally.
And for all of those there are so many examples as you see every day in your environment.
I don’t know much about the other religions but in mine there are so many remindes for being beautiful and wear clean and colorful clothes and always put on make up and perfumes and always smell good and always smile and treat very nice with people and even for women keep their nail alittle bit longer than men!!! and if your rich even you have to wear more classy clothes and don’t act like poor people and so many other things that shows it doesn’t mean that we can not be attractive or nice in out acts but just keep or eagers for such a reasons…
You must know that in Islam there are soooooooooooooooooo many other rules for after marriage and even for how to have a nice sexy life beside of our romantic life.
That’s all
Hope you know abit more now.

By: greeneyes

greeneyes — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 06:35:42 +0000

There is NOT one good reason to save sex for marriage.
And to all girls who are saying Oh I want it to be special, he is gonna love me more, respect me more toy are all wrong. it might be special to you but for a guy, he just wants to get laid. get over it.
Why so many young people in there 20;s get married, because they wanna have sex, they have sex and then they divorce. it never last, no sex before marriage is a certain road to a divorce!!

By: aunt_webby

aunt_webby — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 05:52:58 +0000

there is a very good book by Karl duff called ” restoration of men “, read chapter 7

By: Web Desk

Web Desk — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 05:45:04 +0000

enjoy and what your mind want to do blowjob or hardcore

By: GOBBLIN :)

GOBBLIN :) — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 05:31:02 +0000

It’s obviously a lifestyle choice. I would have loved to save it until marriage, because when you save it for that one special person, then it means every little simple thing. My boyfriend has had his past, and obviously, he wants it more frequently, which is a good thing if you’re fully committed (which we are) because relationships consist of many different factors. Also, if you save it for marriage, it’s just over all a really sweet thing to do, sex in general is meant to be symbolic, but people nowadays have taken it to a new level of “feeling good” instead of it being a warm intimate therapeutic feeling. Anyways, abstinence is also good for the prevention of STDs and many other things along those lines. At least you’ll live to be happier than anyone else who’s had sex before marriage.

By: Aeli W

Aeli W — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 05:28:01 +0000

I do not really think that there is a good reason. Besides if you follow the bible then you should be getting married at 12 or 13 like they did back then. I would never marry someone I have not had sex with, I think it is an important part of the bonding experience.

By: Alicia Morse

Alicia Morse — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 04:33:56 +0000

I wish I would have saved mine… I been with the same person for three years but we are not married and he had sex with another girl before me and I get upset to the fact that I was not his first love she was and it makes me sad the thing is that if I would have saved it and been with my boyfriend this long it shows that we don’t need to have sex to be happy we have other things to make us who we are and I Lasted a year without giving it to him
I am just saying you should wait because sex does not mean
the person loves you marge shows you that they want you forever
so why give up something that is yours to someone that does not deserve it
I make my boyfriend prove to me that he loves me